This might be a little touchy… I tend not to write too much about religion around here. One of those sensitive areas that get people all worked up. But maybe it’s time to dig a little bit deeper. Bigots tend to hide in “high” places and behind big claims… And, of course, a lot of the things I want to write on religion comes back to haunt me. Am I doing what I accuse other people of doing in the name of religion. Well, tough. I’ll do it any way. Bigots beware…
Let’s make this clear. This is not aimed at any specific religion. I don’t care if you are Christian, Muslim, Jewish, Hindu or Buddhist – or anything else for that matter. I don’t care if you are mainstream or somewhere hidden in a sect in the mountains. The rules stay the same. If you are a bigot then… Well, let’s just say that either your religious beliefs are warped or your God is warped. Your choice.
Tell me, what does your God teach you? Does he teach you to hate? Does he teach you to make war? Does he teach you to discriminate? Does he tell you that you are better than the next person? Or that those who look like you are His chosen people and the others are out of luck – and it’s open season on those out of luck? Well, buddy, you suck if you believe in that. And your God suck if He tells you that.
I don’t claim to be much of a religious expert. I believe and I know I am pretty pathetic when it comes to sinning – we all do really. All I know is the basic stuff – don’t do this and don’t do that. You know just the basic generic stuff. They’re all the same rules – more or less. Don’t kill (or murder) is pretty much in there somewhere in most (if not all) of the major religions. Yeah, for those who don’t know – the Qur’an (5:32) says, “….anyone who murders any person who had not committed murder or horrendous crimes, it shall be as if he murdered all the people.” Thoseguys who flew those airplanes? Straight to hell. No matter what the mad man in the cave has to say.
Talking about mad men in caves. We know the one with the grey beard hiding up in the mountains is as crazy as bat shit. But he isn’t the only one who claims to “lead his people” who might just be more than a little crazy…
Is your spiritual leader telling you that he speaks to God? Or that God speaks to him? Well guess what… The voices in their heads have a medical term attached to it. I think the correct technical term is… Crazy. Insane. Nuts. Loony. Sorry to disappoint you, but God doesn’t talk to the big head standing on the pulpit preaching. He doesn’t have the Verizon network.
Why the hell do you think He would talk to your guy? Because your guy says so? Well guess what? Why does it generally go with something you have to do instead of the liar leading you? Did Osamathe Coward fly the airplanes? No he didn’t. Did the preacher say that you should give him some money instead of the other way around? Did he say don’t sleep around but then got caught witha prostitute around the corner? Do they drive a nice car and have a nice house while telling you to donate to the “work of God”? Do they spend money on lobbying for policy changes while people are dying of hunger? Are they paying for ads against gay marriages while people are losing their jobs and livelihoods? I think God will most likely pick someone witha little bit less mouth and more character. Someone who cares about being good and doing good more than what they care about how other people are behaving…
Ask yourself this question… Why the hell is your religion so interested in controlling what others are doing instead of what the hell they themselves are doing? You beat your wife? You look at that girl down the road and wouldn’t mind a piece of that? You keep that $10 mistaken change because it’s your lucky day? You think that car of your neighbor is pretty cool and you have just a touch of jealousy? You rather watch the game on Saturday or Sunday or go shopping instead of taking it easy as the Book says? You sometimes say “Oh my Gawd” or “Jeeze” and never thought where it might actually come from? You like the big screen telly a little bit too much – almost like it is your god instead of the God you claim to follow? You break thoseGod-given rules so often but still think it is a much better idea to “fix” thosewho don’t believe in your version of God? It’s fine to throw stones at those who don’t attend your church? But you can’t stick to your own rules? Believer on a Sunday and a bigot the rest of the time? No. The bigotry starts at your church.
That’s what we call bigotry of the self. When you look at other people and throw stones at them instead of getting your own house in order. You want a voice on gay marriages? Then why don’t you first start by solving your own teen pregancies, divorces, wife beating, family murders, forced marriages in one way or another, multiple partners and other forms of moral corruption before you come and try to throw your weight around here.
You remind me of the same big government you apparently despise so much. Big mouth but once the shit hits the fan? Then we have to clean up after you. Get your house in order. Learn to be “just” according to your beliefs before you tell other people how they don’t “comply” to what your God said they should comply with.
For God sake. You can’t even stick to your own rules. Who fuck are you to tell other people to stick to your rules?
About those rules…
Did your God say that you should judge others? Or did your God say that you should first sort yourself out before you open your big mouth?
And if your rules says that other people shouldn’t have certain rights… Then stick your God where the sun don’t shine. Yes, you heard me right.
Why should I care about your God if your God doesn’t care about me? Huh? Come on… Tell me. Why should I care if you tell me that He doesn’t care?
If your God tells you it is just fine to be a bigot… Then He isn’t much of a God or you aren’t much of a follower.
Your God tells me more about you than what you tell me about Him. If you claim your God doesn’t tolerate gay marriages then I don’t tolerate your God. Why should I? If you claim that your God doesn’t tolerate equal rights for all then I don’t tolerate your beliefs. If your God tells you that you believing in Him makes you better than others and allows you to take out your “righteousness” on those “others” then I don’t listen to Him. If your God tells you that you should give more money to the preacher shouting those words of hate then I will shout back even louder. If your God tells you it is okay to kill others in His name then I will defend those who you attack.
Any bigotry coming from your God via your mouth means nothing. It remains bigotry. And you remain a bigot. And the words of your God remains full of bigotry if you spew out your bigoted lies.
So take you God. And live your life with Him. According to His words. I want nothing to do with you or your God. He is not my God. And you are not my people.
Actually… No.
Your God is a figment of your bigotry. And I am taking the true God back.
Don’t think that your God is my God. He is not. You can call Him by the same name but He is NOT your God. Better still… Why don’t you just use another name. I don’t give a shit what you call Him. Just leave my God out of this. I am taking Him back. To where He belongs. With us. He is ours.
Because he is just. He is compassionate. He is tolerant. He is he is respect. He is life. He is love.
He knows how pathetic I am. That’s why He laughs at me. And smiles at me. And why He loves me. Because He knows I am pretty pathetic. But He knows He is mine because of how stupid I am. He knows I don’t like you because of what you do to others and He doesn’t like that. But He is tolerant and forgiving. Thank God for that. But I am not. He knows, that’s just me. Because of us.
And it is time to take God back.
You have used and abused His name long enough. No, you have used and abused Him long enough. Your hatred and bigotry from the crusades to slavery to the Klan to flying airplanes into building to strapping bombs to your chest to denying equal rights to others to beheading and stoning people to… to… to everything that you have done in His name. Stop it right now.
Stop. It. Right. Now.
Time to take God back.
He is not yours. He never was. You just abused Him like you do with your powers and your hatred and your bigoted way. You just used him like a rag to clean up your mess you left behind on the counter of life each time you spilled and spewed your bigotry.
Each and every bigot talking about how God does not stand for this equality or that justice and his freedom or her liberty. Stop it. You are raping God the way you have raped this world for centuries in His name. No more. He is not yours.
No. More.
He. Is. Not. Yours.
My God is the God of Mother Theresa and Gandhi and Martin Luther King Jr and Nelson Mandela. The God of peace and happiness. My God believes in love and life. My God believes in freedom and justice. My God believes in equality and liberty. My God believes in compassion and passion. My God believes in goodness and doing good. My God believes in me and in us. Because, with God on our side, I am because we are.
My God believes in love not war. My God believes in understanding not hatred. My God believes in compassion and not bigotry. My God embraces before he declares war. My God believes in living amongst everyone before he kills anyone. My God is a liberal who cares about others more than what he cares about Himself. My God believes in us and not you.
So…
Stop using Him for your own selfish reasons. You’ve had your time. And now your time has come. My God is not your God. The only God you know is the hatred in your heart and the bigotry of self. And that is not God.
I am taking God back. We are taking God back.
Now go. My God has no place for bigots. God has no place for bigots.
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(Note 1: I know the gaping hole in my argument. I am telling people not to judge but live according to the principle of God and not the bigoted God some are trying to sell them, but at the same time I am judging. Oh well… At least I am judging based on what their own beliefs are saying and if they don’t agree – just don’t call him God because he isn’t the same God as mine.)
Note 2: Before someone attacks me for referring to God as a “He”. I just didn’t feel like writing Him/Her or He/She the whole bloody time. It’s silly. Argue the bigger point and don’t nit-pick minor details. Just swap the Him for Her and see if it changes anything. I can’t live with a God that is bigot – male or female.)


November 25, 2008 at 7:41 pm
On that note:
November 25, 2008 at 7:42 pm
Oh what the hell…..
http://www.liveleak.com/view?i=29d_1211547354
Let the fire burn me.
November 25, 2008 at 9:05 pm
Dude, I hope you’re doing OK!
It’s G*d not God. You’re not allowed to write the name/word God out, you have to put that space in there. Man don’t you know anything? You ever read Michener’s “The Source” What a great book. Put’s a lot into perspective. So does being dragged to Baptist Sunday school and Catholic Mass every Sunday. I was just kidding about the spelling thing BTW.
I hope you get regular checkups. You’re almost 40 right? and stress like this can lead to coronary problems.
November 25, 2008 at 9:20 pm
Hey don’t worry about being smited.
You get used to the vultures picking at your liver.
It tickles actually.
November 25, 2008 at 10:01 pm
Yah, it doesn’t sound right to refer to God as “It”, does it?
I so get what you are saying. I’m often wondering how the God I know could possibly be the same God known by some of my friends, neighbors, relatives, people I go to church with. “Their” God hates gay people, loves WASPs more than Those people, sent AIDS as a punishment to gays and doesn’t mind that it also kills children and people whose only “Crime” was getting a transfusion in the hospital.
I tell ya, “Their” God scares the everloving Hell out of me, and I’m not sure I want to meet that guy. I do want to meet mine, though, He’s a great Father.
November 25, 2008 at 11:32 pm
You really are my brother aren’t you????? You scare me at times you know that? I could have written this!
November 26, 2008 at 2:47 am
I can’t agree more with what you write -I often want to just copy and paste what you say on my blog (oh yeah, I did that once!). I don’t know what book bigots read. I don’t know whether they read at all. Maybe they just listen to their leaders and nod.
I come from a very diverse family religion-wise. I chose to be Christian, and if I remember well, “my” God says something like “the most important commandment is to love one another.” Period. Not judge people. Not think you are holier than the rest. Just this: love.
November 26, 2008 at 7:48 am
A book for your holiday : David Whyte’s River Flow and the poem begining
“It doesn’t interest me if there is one God or many gods. I want to know if you belong or feel abandoned . . .
ending
to live, day by day, with the consequences of love and the bitter unwanted passion of your sure defeat.
I have heard, in that fierce embrace, even the gods speak of God.”
A poem for people who live.
November 26, 2008 at 8:23 am
Amen.
I empathize with your anger in this post. Completely.
November 26, 2008 at 8:35 am
@scienkoptic – Haha! You… I should have known. And the vultures will be picking on my ribs like we will on that turkey over the next few days…
@skuttlefish – I can feel the lighting striking you from here boet. You and your brother… You are so going to get me into sh*t one day. G*d only knows…
@ame i. – Just can’t call Him/Her “It” hey? I like my God. The God. The one who loves loving more than bitching and fighting. The one who says “do good” before he says “don’t do that”. I think we might be talking about the same God.
@Amber – It is scary isn’t it! Like that other one where you knew what I was saying but so many didn’t? Do you have hidden cameras following me? Wait… Do you work for the CIA?
@Johanna – Yes! Love one another like you love yourself. That’s what pisses me off. When people hate they tell me more about themselves than others or their God. So right!
@Jo – Thank you! “the gods speak of God”. Just beautiful. I am so going to read that poem this weekend. Seems to be right on the timing as well. Again, thank you for that.
@Miss Britt – Hey! Thank you! (Hey people, it’s Miss Britt – she is awesome. Go visit her some time. I promise you that you will always be entertained. Or scared shitless.) So much of what you write is right. I empathize with your writing so often. Thank you for the visit!
November 26, 2008 at 8:49 am
Beautiful entry, and so so true! I blogged about something very similar a few months ago, and gosh it got some heated responses! I think if we all lived by the principle of God, this world would be different. What amazes me is how some religions always want to point at other religions for all the downfalls we have on this earth. I see too much hypocrisy in organized religion. Too much!
http://www.leahomar.wordpress.com
November 26, 2008 at 10:02 am
“I saw god and she was black”….remember that from when we were kids? Love this post. You are so passionate. And right.
Judgment is an interesting concept and one I have been pondering for a while.
Many spiritual teachings teach to not judge. It is what my heart tells me too. Yet how can we not judge? Every minute of every day we are judging, down to the minutest mundane detail….should I cross the road?…are there cars coming?…how fast are they coming?…can I make it? That is judging. It is necessary for survival. I haven’t reconciled this yet.
If I have to put a label on me (which I dislike doing), it would be neo-Pagan. Not because I reject Christianity or any of the other Abrahamic religions per se, but because I like the umbrella effect of encompassing all the earth and nature based traditions and they feel more “real” to me. I steer clear of pagan religions though, because even there, there is dogma and power struggles. A few principles from Wicca I have taken on; “Do no harm”, “Personal responsibility”, “What you do, will return three-fold”.
I wish more people would adopt these – the world would be a more peaceful place.
November 26, 2008 at 10:26 am
AA: You completely blow me away…. you speak my mind, my heart and my soul with this one. I am with you to take my God, OUR God, back. With all of the love, compassion, and dedication that He has to me……..
Ubuntu, my dear dear friend. Ubuntu. It is a total privilege to know you and to love you.
November 26, 2008 at 10:58 am
Greatest Commandment: Love the LORD your God with all your heart, mind, soul and strength.
Second: Love your neighbor as yourself.
All the rest flows from that.
(“Love” in the sense of revere, hold in awe, thankful, trusting)
We are all still sinners, even Christians, and the thing we are to attempt is to be more and more in line with Jesus. Those that throw hate and call themselves “Christians” are liars. And you know what happens to liars…….
November 26, 2008 at 10:51 pm
A number of years ago I was having a conversation with a young lady who worked for me, and I mentioned that I was an agnostic. She looked at me seriously and said, “Eternity is a long time to spend in purgatory.” In the ensuing conversation she let me know that everyone who didn’t belong to her sect of Southern Baptism was going to hell. I told her that if her heaven was a place that rejected every other Christian, all the Jews, Moslems, Buddists, Hindus, (the list goes on and on), then I didn’t want any part of it.
By the way, I recently wrote a play on Charles Darwin. He was an agnostic and his wife was a religious Christian. She was terribly concerned that she was going to spend forever in heaven waiting for him to finish his sentence in the nether regions. An exchange between them to that effect is in my play.
November 27, 2008 at 10:00 am
Have you seen that scene in the movie Casino Royale where Bond is getting his nether regions tickled by that bad guy. That’s how it’s going to feel having that vulture eat you liver every day. haha. Hope I can take it like Bond did. Be a great Tee shirt for sale on AA.com. “TAKE IT LIKE BOND” we’d know what it means.
Happy T day All
November 27, 2008 at 5:20 pm
Boy aren’t you THE angry one!
Once again, great blog. Many great points. Wishing these words would self propagate themselves. Or something.
November 28, 2008 at 6:19 am
Hey,i appreciate your frustrations with the extremists within the various religions.However,God isn’t something that we create for ourselves to suit our situations.We have to get that.I’m a Christian so I’ll argue along the lines of the bible…if you wouldn’t mind.You see, we have to understand not all things that we desire to do as men are right.We can’t just live as we please just because we have the freedom to do so.Can you imagine a world where everyone could do anything that you wanted?Can you imagine the anarchy?
Like anyone would use a car manual to guide the use of a new car,Christians use the bible as a manual for life.On the issue of homosexuality,the bible is clear.Homosexuality is detestable in the sight of God.It’s that simple.And that doesn’t make me a bigot.Men aren’t meant to have sex with men!That’s madness.However,it’s even more wrong to discriminate against a homosexual or be violent towards them.We are all equal in the sight of God and no man has the right to be aggressive towards another man.No one.
We are men.We have free will.But I believe that we’ll account for the kind of lives we live when we die. Even if you are an atheist, think about what the next crazy thing that will be clamored for if homosexuality is made to seem normal.Maybe people will be asking to marry animals…or even worse.
We can’t just live the way we feel is right because more often than not the way we feel isn’t.
November 28, 2008 at 6:41 am
You know, right this second I am typing each word in between clapping and doing a boot dance on a really wheely chair whoohoooo there are MORE of us out there!
Ah I do get so tired of Niknak religion, crunchy, tasty, cheesey and gets tuck in your teeth eventually causing holey pain … have you tried the chutney niknaks? sooo deeevine!
November 28, 2008 at 3:47 pm
“Even if you are an atheist, think about what the next crazy thing that will be clamored for if homosexuality is made to seem normal.
This is what makes you a bigot, Coke.
It’s not the part where you are following the Bible, it’s your extrapolation beyond what the bible says.
One of the Ten Commandmants:
Thou shalt not judge
November 30, 2008 at 10:51 am
@leahomar – That is so right. The hypocrisy of organized religion…
@Natalie – “Personal responsibility.” Yes! If everyone can just focus on their own life and how to hold themselves responsible instead of pointing fingers at everyone else. I judge, but mostly because people don’t take personal responsibility. Instead they shift blame.
@vanessaleighsblog – Ubuntu… If only more people could just make this easy judgement. Love you back sister.
@FreetoBe – Love… I heard this morning that a guy said it is easier to be nice than to be horrible. It is easier to love than to hate. Hate wastes time. Man, wish more people could see those first two Commandments first!
@donfried – Hi Don! Awesome work by the way! I guess we will all be going to hell. Seeing that I can’t get down to that church. Don’t forget to take some ice to cool down. Damn bigots.
@skuttlefish – Haha! Ouch man! Mmm. Maybe I should start a line of t-shirts. How about “I’ll work for boerewors” or “Real men braai”?
@TheGT – Thank you!
@Cokebiscuit – Okay. But you can’t let your religious views be forced on others by the state now can you? And the animals argument is just crap. Two consenting adults…
@SanityFound – Niknak riligion! Haha! You are brilliant SF!
@Keven Bennett – You said it. Bigotry.
December 2, 2008 at 8:47 pm
Haven’t been around here for awhile – and I’ve missed you at my place.
I know you’re talking about g*d, but really you’re talking about humans, values, love, and – unfortunately – paranoia and self-justification.
I don’t need to say much here, AA, because you know me well. I just want to caution against making this only about religion . . .
As an atheist, I have grown as disgusted by the “new atheists”, who are at least as strident, arrogant, and evangelistic as extremists of established religions. They have, in fact, created a new religion which embraces eugenics, techno-fascism, and transhumanism. It is a fearsome and genocidal movement, full of conceit and disregard for the human spirit. In their narcissistic minds, they are become the new g*ds and are very dangerous.
I would rather ride the bus with a gentle, humble christian than with one of these.
Be at peace, my friend.
December 3, 2008 at 8:50 pm
As a California resident, I would like to point out that Proposition 8 was about the definition of the term ‘marriage’. It did nothing to take away the civil rights of homosexuals. Under California Family Code 297.5, domestic partnerships are afforded all the same rights as married couples.
Here is a passage from the law:
(a) Registered domestic partners shall have the same rights,
protections, and benefits, and shall be subject to the same
responsibilities, obligations, and duties under law, whether they
derive from statutes, administrative regulations, court rules,
government policies, common law, or any other provisions or sources
of law, as are granted to and imposed upon spouses.
Site:
http://www.leginfo.ca.gov/cgi-bin/displaycode?section=fam&group=00001-01000&file=297-297.5
The only thing, that I can see, that homosexuals are denied is the ability to legally call their union a marriage. Do you really need a piece of paper to define your relationship with someone?
The best resolution I see for this issue is to call all relationships civil unions and leave the term ‘marriage’ for the religious institutions. Those for the seperation of church should be all over this solution. Unfortunately, I doubt the extremes on either side would be willing to compromise on this solution. It would be either all or nothing. If only clearer minds would prevail…
Also, as a Mormon, I’m shocked at the viterol that is directed at my brand of religion. The church, itself, did not finance the ‘Yes’ side, but it did encourage it’s members to get involved with the issue. Many of our members were very generous with their time and money. We are a very organized church and it showed when it came to the passage of Proposition 8. Yes…LDS members were very visible during the campaign and I can see why the other side might see us as the “face” of ‘Yes on Prop 8″. Though, there are only around 800,000 members in the state of California with a population of 36.5 million people. Many other groups were responsible for the votes the passed the proposition. Ethnicities, such as African Americans and Hispanics, were responsible for a large percentage of the vote total for the ‘yes’ side as well as other larger religous institutions, such as Catholics. So, again, why focus all your fustration and hatred on Mormons?
December 21, 2008 at 3:14 pm
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